A Special Mother’s Day Message For You

This one’s for you, Mama.
A love letter. A reminder. A celebration of all that you are and all that you do.

Because you do A LOT.

Do you give yourself enough credit for that?

I think most of us could give ourselves a whole lot more. One of the biggest shifts I’ve experienced in my own journey as a mum has been learning how to truly acknowledge myself. Not just for the big wins, but for the tiny, everyday acts that too often go unseen.

For the longest time, I looked to others to fill that gap for me. I’d hope my partner or my kids would say, “You’re doing a great job.” When they didn’t, I’d feel deflated. I’d think: “Don’t they see how hard I worked today? Don’t they care that I haven’t even sat down yet?”

That quiet disappointment would bubble up and spill out—in my body language, my tone, and sometimes my words.

And to be fair, my hubby often would give me credit. He’d come home from work, take one look at me juggling our two boys and say,
“You’re doing the most important job in the world.”

And I’d feel seen... for a while. But eventually, I’d slip back into the same pattern, waiting for the next dose of appreciation to keep me going.

Until something changed.

I discovered the quiet superpower of giving myself credit.

It started with a simple practice—writing down everything I did in a day as a mum. Big and small. At first it felt unnatural (who was I to celebrate myself?) but slowly, it became easier.

I began to see myself.

And more than that, I began to honour myself.

Not with grand gestures, but with little moments of celebration:
Putting my feet up for five minutes with a cuppa.
A solo dance to my favourite song.
A deep breath and a whispered, “You’re doing great.”

It changed the way I talked to myself. My inner voice softened.
“Well done for all you’ve done today.”
“You deserve a rest.”
“You’re doing an incredible job.”

Now when my husband says something kind, I love it. But I no longer need it.
I’m no longer waiting for someone else to validate what I already know inside.

So this Mother’s Day, my message to you is simple:
Give yourself credit.
And then give yourself more.

It’s never too late to start.
Start right now.

Yes, the sleepless nights and packed lunch boxes matter.
But so do all these things…

• The cuddles and kisses you give just because.

• The runny noses you wipe (without a word).

• The countless “No’s” you say to keep them safe.

• The grazes you bandage and the tears you soothe.

• The gentle reminders to brush their teeth... again.

• The thoughtful lunchboxes packed with love.

• The drink bottles chosen so their little fingers can open them.

• The birthday gifts you wrap with care.

• The playdates, park visits, and beach days you plan and pack for.

• The work you do, in or out of the home, to provide.

• The bedtime stories read with one eye closed.

• The whispered reassurances: “There are no monsters under the bed.”

And so much more.

What would you add to the list?
Go ahead and name it. Say it out loud. Write it down.

Let’s build a culture of self-recognition together—one quiet, courageous mum at a time.

If this message touched something in you, I invite you to pause and reflect: What do you want to give yourself credit for today? I’d love to hear what resonates for you—share with me here or reach out if you’d like support as you step more fully into your power as a parent. You don’t have to do this alone.